Note: from Chris this content was originally published on Becky’s blog: She was kind enough to post for me because I wasn’t up to the task of dealing with WordPress. Cee tried to show me a few tricks before she died but her laptop was giving her fits and she ran out of energy before I had learned enough. I’m posting it again here for those of you who don’t follow Becky.
Cee quietly left this world on the 3rd of March, a Monday evening. I was privileged to be her soulmate and wife for more than thirty-five years. She taught me so much, including her love of photography, of color and form. She continues to brighten my day even after leaving her body behind.
My favorite look from Cee. I call it her librarian look because it usually meant that she caught me doing something she didn’t quite appreciate or think as funny as I did. It always reminded me of the look school librarians would give us if we were being too loud. No offense meant to any librarians!
When Becky was kind enough to post about Cee’s declining health and eventual going into hospice, Cee and I were overwhelmed with the love showered upon her by all of you. I sat beside her hospital bed, reading one, two, sometimes three responses, watching the tears roll down her cheeks. She knew each one of you and could tell me who you were, where you lived, what she enjoyed about your blogs. We could only handle a few at a time because your writings were so sincere. You were her beloved friends when she couldn’t leave the house anymore. You let her live and reach out, touching your lives as hers was being slowly and inexorably drawing smaller and smaller.
Out on the Oregon coast, camera in hand, as always.
The one fear Cee had about her life was that no one would remember her, that she hadn’t made enough difference in this world, in anyone’s life. Yes, she really thought that. She was humble to the end. Your wishes and memories of her were incredible and gave her satisfaction and peace of mind, knowing that she really had touched lives. You gave her the gift of peace. Thank you.
Her idea of a selfie. She hated being in front of the lens, as so many photographers do.
It’s too soon for me to make any decisions about continuing this blog, or about Flower Of The Day (FOTD). Please bear with me in my grief.
Our last photo of her… me, Cee and my brother Joe, about a month before she died.
Much love, thankfulness and many virtual hugs to all of you.
Chris
As I was looking through Cee’s computer to find material for Becky to post, I came upon some words that Cee had dictated to me just two weeks after she came home to be on hospice. She had spent time thinking about her upcoming death and wanted to leave a message to others who were dying, and also to the people she was leaving behind.
Stay who you are. Stay true to yourself. Other people might change around you because you’re dying, but you don’t have to change.
Let the emotions come. They’ll come in waves, but let them come. Try not to be scared, although you will be. That allows for the good memories to come back, too, and that allows you to share with the ones you love and really be there.
Don’t ever be afraid to say I love you. Even if it’s a stranger in the street and your eyes meet, say something. Give them a smile. Let them know you acknowledge them.
Never regret what you’ve done in life. They lead to all things that created who you are.
Cee Neuner, November 2024
Cee's Photo Challenges 
Chris, I’m so sorry to read this. Cee rekindled my appreciation and love of photography, something that had been missing in my life for a long time and I’ll always remember her for that. My condolences on your loss. May Cee’s memory be for a blessing. 🌹❤️
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Dearest Chris, words fail me (as usual) but you have been in my thoughts a lot of late while Dean and I have been travelling and, now that I am home, I just wanted to tell you that I will never be able to photograph a flower again without thinking of Cee and every time I post a flower, I will be doing so for both of you.
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I’m so sorry for your loss, Chris. Cee made such a difference to so many of us, me included. My flowers are always for Cee.
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Here’s an old poem of mine, for you and Cee!
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So sorry for your loss Chris. Though I knew she was in hospice, I didn’t realize Cee had passed. She will be missed.
Stay strong.
Pat
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I have been feeling for you Chris ever since Becky posted this on her blog. I’m pleased you felt able to do so here too and to add those extra personal thoughts about Cee and her blog. If you do decide to continue it I know you will have the support of so many bloggers whose lives were touched by Cee in some way.
I didn’t know her or follow her as closely as some but I was still influenced by her. She helped me to discover so much about the world of blogging that it would have taken me far longer to learn by myself. So I wanted to post my own tribute: https://www.toonsarah-travels.blog/gallery-flowers-of-the-philippines/ There’s no need or pressure for you to visit it but I wanted you to know it was there. Sending virtual hugs 🤗🤗
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Will always think of Cee whenever I see a photo worthy flower (and aren’t they all?) – RIP Cee. And love and light to you Chris.
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I am so sorry to hear this, Chris. I didn’t blog on here as much as I used to in the last few years but from the moment I joined in with one or other of Cee’s challenges back in 2014, she made me welcome and was alway complimentary about my images. She came across as a cheerful and positive person, despite her health issues. She leaves a large hole in all our lives, and will be remembered with great fondness. Sending love to you and Cee’s family.
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I love those words at the end. I’m so sorry to hear that Cee has passed. What a wonderful woman who was very warm and welcoming to anyone knew in her blogging circle. She really encouraged me at the beginning of my journey more than 7 years ago. Rest in peace Cee, you made a difference and will be remembered xx
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I am just learning of Cee’s passing now and was following her for many years. I appreciated her commitment, passion, and care. I participated in a few of the share my world challenges and enjoyed thus process.
Chris, I am so sorry for this huge loss. Blogging is magical, mostly because of this community. There are no words to describe the enormity of my gratitude to be part of it. Thank you for supporting Cee’s creativity. ❤️
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Thank you! She used to love doing Share Your World and would read me all the replies.
I’m beginning to see why you say that blogging is magical. The response to the updates that Becky and I have posted have overwhelmed me, but in a very good way. Such love!
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Cee will be greatly missed.
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So sorry for your loss. Cee will be missed. x
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Sending my prayers and condolences, Chris. Cee certainly did make a difference. I have used her challenges for a long time and shared her lists of challenges with others.
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Thank you, Chris, for your kindness in sharing this post. Your memories and Cee’s words are very special.
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I am so sorry for your loss, Chris. Cee brought so much joy and inspiration to us all.
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I’m so sorry for your loss, Chris. I started participating in Cee’s photo challenges many years ago on and off. Her dedication and love of photography, blogging, and connection with others was something that always stood out to me. I wish you peace and comfort today and always. 💗
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All Flowers for Dear Cee and She will never be forgotten. Thank you dear Chris, Much Love and Hugs, I am with you. nia
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My warmest condolences, Chris. Cee touched so many lives through her photography blogs. Her farewell words are beautiful and inspiring. Thank you for sharing with us!♥📷
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Chris, I am so glad you have been able to post this here, and with the extra details about the photos makes it a wonderful memorial to Cee. Sending you hugs
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So glad you found the strength to post this on Cee’s site. Word had already spread beyond Becky’s own subscribers, but it’s good for everyone who had valued Cee’s presence on the blogosphere to read some of her final thoughts. You must know how much she is missed. 💌
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I love Dee’s last message. Yes, let’s stay who we are, and smile. It’s life-changing. She will always remain in our hearts. Love and hugs to the family.
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I mean, Cee
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Sending love and hugs from Michigan. We will all miss her. I hope you find some comfort from that.
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Chris, my sincerest condolences on your irreparable loss. Cee left a mark that won’t be forgotten. I joined the WordPress blogsphere and only recently — maybe two years ago — discovered Cee’s blogs. She brightened my days with her flower passion in that short time. I am lucky to have interacted with her here.
Egidio
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Chris, thank you for sharing something so deeply personal and achingly beautiful.
Cee’s light, humor, and heart reached far and wide—and still do. Her words are a legacy of grace. She was unforgettable, and so is your love story. Holding space for your grief, and sending warmth, always.
Namaste.
🙏🙏🙏
Philo.
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Thank you for sharing Cee’ s words of wisdom. I will miss her. Please accept my condolences.
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Much love to you Chris at this difficult time. May your memories bring you peace in the coming days and months. She is loved by all of us
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Cee and I have been blogging friends for over a decade. My only regret is never having met her in person. It is, thanks to her, however, that Oregon is on my bucket list.
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She will be missed by many
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May peace be with her and with you . . . thank you for sharing so beautifully . . ,
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Chris, I didn’t know Cee very well, but I did respect her for her dedication to photography and blogging. I also know she helped many along the way. I remember complaining that my WordPress account kept filling up. She was the one who suggested how to scale down my photos so it wouldn’t happen. After that I started following her blog. We all grieve differently. Please know that you are in our hearts as we all grieve along with you, Take care and cherish those happy memories.
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Sending love and caring thoughts to you Chris. I loved your comment about the “Librarian look.” That is a lovely photo of Cee.
I will miss her and will always think of her when I participate in the challenges she began.
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Thank you for letting us know. I was always aware of Cee’s posts and challenges as something to aspire to join in with, even though I rarely did. What I always remember is her kindness in her comments to me and to all the other participants. She had to be so busy coordinating everything and yet she took the time to encourage others. She is a shining light and I am thankful for her work!
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Dear Chris, Thank you so much for posting on Cee’s site! Reading this post on her site is very comforting.
I think the fear Cee had… was because she wanted to share more with us and she had endless love for nature. I truly believe that Cee’s posts, challenges, and photos had made a huge impact, that she will always be shining through the blogsphere. I learned to photography flowers from her FOTD (Cee’s knew my struggles). I, then, was inspired to learn about flowers as I take photos. Years ago, I began to learn to watercolor flowers. But, I haven’t been able to hold my watercolor brush without tears running down my face these days, so I just keep looking at her flower photos. Yes, I’ll continue posting FOTD.
Thank you for taking care of Cee! I love Cee’s librarian looking photo, my favorite. Sending hugs and love.
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Hitting the like button just doesn’t express the love and appreciation for you posting this on Cee’s blog. I cried when I read your guest post on Becky’s blog & several times since then and again after reading your post here. Rest assured Cee will not be forgotten. Her legacy on the blogosphere world will remain & continue on into eternity. She was truly an inspiration, an encourager, and all around amazing person I am glad to have known & am proud to say I considered her my friend. I appreciate all you did taking care of her “our Cee.” She will be missed, but never forgotten. Prayers for you as you grieve & sort out what needs doing & what you wish to do going forward.
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Thank you for your courage Chris. I am shedding more tears this morning 🥲
It is heartening to see so many people still post flowers regularly and tag them Cee’s FOTD.
Let me know what you decide please
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She was a bright light and great inspiration for me. That light and those inspiration will last.
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She was a wonderful woman, Chris. I know I don’t need to tell you that! I was trying to imagine how many of those librarian looks you must have received down the years. It made me smile and I love that photo. Life will never be the same for you, hon, but you have precious memories that no-one else will ever have. I know you’ll treasure them. Thanks for sharing this. It’s great to keep the connection going xx
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Cee will be remembered by many. May she rest in paradise, surrounded by the flowers she loved. My deepest sympathies, Chris, and thanks for sharing this post.
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She was a bright light and inspiration for me. That light and those inspiration will last, as do my memories of Cee.
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💕💕💕💕
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There’s a hole in the blogosphere that only Cee could fill. I will miss her. Praying for your comfort, Chris, as you grieve. Know that we grieve with you and Cee will live on in the memories and the beauty she shared with us through her words and her lens. God bless you.
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Thank you for sharing this, Chris. Sending thoughts of love and peace your way.
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This post is a blessing to read, Chris, because it comes from you. Becky sent out your guest post the other day. The entire blogosphere is saddened by the passing of our beloved blogger friend. I felt honored to be in Cee’s circle of friends.
I know you have decisions to make about her blog. Blogging can be overwhelming and time consuming as you likely know. There was talk a while back among some bloggers that perhaps several of us could each take a day for Cee’s Flower of the Day feature and continue it in her name. No hurry on your part to decide, but please know that Cee’s friends are here for you both. Feel free to reach out to me personally. Cee has my email address. I’m praying for peace for your heart ❤️
Terri
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What strength you have, Chris, thanks for doing this. And I totally agree – librarian look – I’ve seen plenty of them!
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Thank you for sharing your post here, Chris; I did not know about Cee’s passing. Please receive my condolences, I will keep you and Cee in my thoughts. Sending hugs, Irene.
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A loving, generous soul. Rest peacefully, Cee.
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Hi Chris, thanks for the post! Sending love and virtual hugs your way. ❤ And you will decide what to do with the blog – when the time is right!
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Thank you so much for posting this, Chris! I know it is sad to lose Cee. She is a wonderful friend with a beautiful soul. We miss her a lot. Sending you love and hugs! ❤ ❤
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If there was a “love” button, I’d have pressed it instead.
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Sending much love and hugs across the ocean, Chris ❤
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I sat with a friend this last Monday and told here all about my friend Cee. I wondered where she was in the universe at that time. What I do know was that she was in my heart. ❤️. Thinking of you too dearest Chis.
Carol in California
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